"Mom, I hate you" anxiety parenting is ruining your next generation!

/November 2023

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Wen, Chenma

what on earth is the purpose of having children?

every parent has a different answer, some want their children to get ahead, some want them to continue their dreams, and others want them to be the kind of person they want them to be.

in short, parents' anxieties are everywhere from the moment the child is born.

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sometimes, you may not be able to raise a child the way you want it to be just because you pay enough attention.

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everything wants the best for children.

give so much, but it doesn't end well.

it's easy for moms to take care of their families and work hard.

look at mothers' helpless complaints and complaints, you will see how difficult they are. It's one world, one mother.

<\ "text-align:justify;line-height: 1.75emmittlettermerry spacing: 0pxmattel left: 8px marvelyn right: 8px;\"> when the show became popular all over the country, it also aroused countless parents' thoughts:

how to really love your child as a parent?

after watching this show, my mother summed up the following three parenting tips, hoping to help you who are confused.

in short, parents' anxieties are everywhere from the moment the child is born.

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sometimes, you may not be able to raise a child the way you want it to be just because you pay enough attention.

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suffocating love

tends to be unflattering

one is to use all one's strength to make a child successful.

one is for the sake of children to sacrifice their own.

one is to use all one's strength to make a child successful.

one is for the sake of children to sacrifice their own.

accept your child's future diversity

to make them go further

compared with Song Qian's" romantic "parent-child relationship with Yingzi, Huang Lei and Haiqing's" tiger mother cat father "family atmosphere is relatively relaxed and loving.

the couple always had a Buddhist mentality in educating their son, but after his son was promoted to the third year of high school, he only got the last place in the class exam, and his score declined rapidly, and his mother, Tong Wenjie, began to panic.

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he would rather take the art exam than take the solitary bridge with thousands of troops.

however, when Tong Wenjie knew what his son thought, he didn't believe that his son was the material at all and painstakingly asked his son to give up the idea.

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this child, who "gets sleepy when reading books and gets excited as soon as he reads recipes", cooks a delicious dinner for his family every day for three years.

and Fang Yifan in "Little Joy" is that the 12-year-old boy is interested, talented and hard-working, and obviously has a chance to become a Michelin chef, but his mother's focus is:

Why can't my children compare with the academic performance of other people's children?

the morning mother can't help wondering, are such children really worse in the future than others?

Xie Gang, Master of Educational Psychology of Beijing normal University, said that education should "win by growth", not "defeat by short"!

that is to say, the child's growth board determines the height of the future. Parents can maximize their children's potential only if they find a development path that suits their children's personality and strengths.

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in fact, everyone should have their own unique and happy life.

if your child keeps curiosity, popularity, good character and good character, please keep these fires for him, sooner or later he will shine.

this world, there is more than one way to the so-called success. Parents have to accept the diversity of their children's future in order to make them go further.

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the favorite parent in the play is Ji Yangyang's mother, Liu Jing, who is knowledgeable and reasonable, speaks softly, and treats her children without persecution or abuse.

who wouldn't like such a mother?

but every family has its own difficulties. Because she and her husband have been working outside the city all the year round, Ji Yangyang has been foster at grandma's house since childhood. Until the child was in the third year of high school, Ji Shengli was finally transferred back to Beijing, and his father, who had been absent for many years, suddenly came back, and neither father nor son adapted to each other.

misunderstand that the father values his official career more than his family, while the father dislikes his son's rebellious unruly, which is very much like the father-son relationship in most families in real life.

season father is deeply tired, facing the tense father-son relationship, he says heavily:

" I feel so failed and regret that I missed countless firsts for my children. "

Yes, every child has only ten years of growth, and you only have one chance to accompany him. If you miss this decade, you will regret forever.

good for the seasonal father, willing to lower the father's profile, constantly introspect, try his best to make up for his son:

in order to open his son's heart knot, his fat father, nearly forty or fifty years old, clumsily drove his favorite go-kart.

in order to understand his son's hobbies, he placed himself in a group of young people to learn to" catch dolls ".

accompany her son to have a foreign meal, his trembling smiling face, trying to please, and the embarrassment of opening the menu make her parents sigh.

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Ji's actual actions actually give us the greatest confidence: even if we were not so happy, we are willing to take the first step. This is a good start.

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being a parent is not only a spiritual practice, but also a growth.

Chenmum most admires parents who take good care of their children when they are young and learn to quit appropriately when they grow up. Giving and appreciation is the best manifestation of parents' love for their children.

I think deeply that if there is a starting line in life, it is the strong love of parents.

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